小 心 得

如果有一個人想乘船渡江﹐有一艘無人的船撞到他的船﹐即使他的脾氣再怎麼暴臊﹐他也不會生氣﹐但﹐如果他看到船上有人﹐便會破口大罵﹐叫他走或滚開﹐如果對方還沒聽見﹐他會加大聲浪再罵一次﹐甚至詛咒對方﹐這都是因為船上有人的緣故﹐然而﹐船上若沒半個人影﹐他就不會生氣﹐更不可能開口罵人﹐假設你在這過渡時期﹐立場沒那般的自我﹐可暫時空虛的放空你的身份或立場﹐就沒有人願與你敵對﹔想傷害你了﹐
If a man is crossing a river and an empty boat collides with his own skiff, even though he be a bad tempered man, he will not become very angry but if he see a man in the boat, he will shout at him to steel clear. If the shout is not heard, he will shout again, and yet again, and begin cursing, and all because, there is somebody in the boat. Yet if the boat were empty, he would not be shouting, and not be angry. If you empty your own boat, crossing the river of the world, no one will oppose you, seek to harm you.